How to Split a Toaster
A Divorce Podcast about Saving Your Relationships
Seth Nelson is a Tampa-based family lawyer known for devising creative solutions to difficult problems. In How to Split a Toaster, Nelson and co-host Pete Wright take on the challenge of divorce with a central objective: saving your most important relationships with your family, your former spouse, and yourself.
From an early age, he has always wanted to help people. After law school he found that he could do the greatest good by helping people through one of the most difficult times of their lives. Being a divorcee himself, as well as a father, he understands what you’re going through.
“I have been through a divorce and have a young child. As difficult as the divorce process can be, especially when there are kids involved, things will get better.”
In his practice, Seth focuses on Florida divorce law, Florida family law, and Florida family law mediation. On the Toaster, however, he offers a platform for exploring the extraordinarily wide range of topics that impact you through your divorce, all with an eye on saving your most important relationships.
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On Grief, Loss, and Family
Both Pete and Seth lost a parent in the last year. This week, they address the experience of grief and loss and how that experience impacts your day-to-day reality in some unpredictable ways.
Holding Your Head High Through Divorce with Elizabeth Ann Atkins
Author Elizabeth Ann Atkins helps us keep the focus on a successful divorce outcome while everything else in the divorce process gets ugly!
Forgiveness and Brighter Futures After Divorce with Twyla M. Marks
How do you find peace in the process? This week’s guest is Twyla M. Marks, host of “Divorce Talk with Twyla” and survivor of her own toxic divorce, here to share how forgiveness forges new paths.
A Post-Divorce Valentine's Day to Remember
Whatever your position on Valentine's Day as a holiday, there's no denying the cultural charge of romantic expectation around us. What do you do when you run into your first post-divorce Valentine's Day? Stories from listeners who've done it this week on the show.
The Toaster Hollywood Holiday Special
Happy New Year! In our season break we brought the team together to talk about divorce in the movies. From hyper-stylized to hyper-real, how well do filmmakers capture divorce? Producer Andy Nelson joins Pete and Seth as we build our divorce movie watchlist.
Redesigning Your Life with Jamie Blumenthal • Rebroadcast
We’re on a short break as we celebrate the holidays with our families and gear up for season five coming in 2022. While we’re away, we thought it might be nice to take another trip down memory lane and share some of our favorite episodes from our early seasons of the Toaster. This week, we’re talking about your space.
Healing Trauma, Rebuilding Life with Dee Wallace
Dee Wallace is an actor and a healer and she’s spent the last 20 years as an advocate and teacher in the art of self-creation. Today, we talk about healing yourself and your kids after living through the trauma of divorce.
Bride in Reverse with Writer Becca Bycott
This week on the show we’re talking all about brand YOU with Becca Bycott, writer behind Bride In Reverse, a personal branding and lifestyle blog that celebrates how to reclaim autonomy after this big life change.
Tired of Darkness: Life After Divorce with Chidima Anusiem
What happens to your life after divorce? This week we talk to Author Chi — Chidima Anusieum — about making the jump from divorce to diamonds.
Protecting the Suddenly Single and their Money with Simon Brady
Financial advisor Simon Brady shares how he helps the “suddenly single” through the uncertainly and financial education in the divorce process.
Reprogramming For Health and Strength with Coach JT Tapias
JT Tapias is a trainer, coach, and health counselor and his practice is all about teaching others how to live a fit and healthy life that is sustainable. Your health is more than a casual pastime and the stress of divorce can have an even more drastic impact on your health than you might expect.
Exploring Yourself through Sex After Divorce with Sexologist Dr. Joe Kort
Dr. Joe Kort is a psychotherapist and founder of The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health and a board certified clinical sexologist. He’s in the Toaster to help us navigate the uncertain waters of your post-divorce sex life.
A Day in the Life of Your Divorce Attorney
How does your divorce attorney work your case? Today on the show, let’s dive into the day-to-day buckle shuffle of the firm with Seth Nelson.
The Amygdala Hijack: Pivots to improve your co-parenting experience with Erika Anne Englund
Erika Anne Englund is chief of strategy at SupportPay and comes to the Toaster to talk about language, negotiation, and what happens to your brain on conflict as we navigate the upcoming holiday season.
Questioning Dad Culture with Professor Jordan Shapiro
Professor Jordan Shapiro is a professor at Temple University and author of “Father Figure: How to Be a Feminist Dad.” He’s in the Toaster to explore these ideas through the lens of divorced parents.
The Costs of Splitting Benefits with Tyler Wrage
What happens when your divorce gets in the way of the coverage that helps you stay healthy and feel safe? Tyler Wrage is a benefits consultant with The Strategic Group and joins us to walk us through the process of separation of shared benefits.
Answering the Big Divorce Question: How Are You Going to Pay For It? With Nicole Noonan of New Chapter Capital
This week, Nicole Noonan of New Chapter Capital joins us to answer one of the most difficult decisions in a divorce: How are you going to actually pay for it.
Your Forensic Accountant and You: David Harper Teaches the Numbers Behind Your Divorce
Forensic accountant David Harper joins the Toaster this week to teach us about his role in the divorce process, and why this particular CPA isn't as gloomy as the title implies.
Smart Alcohol: Soberlink Enhances Child Safety Amidst Custody and Alcohol Litigation with Chris Beck
This week, we're going to talk about alcohol, and how you can use technology to monitor use in the divorce process with Soberlink.